Dating In Your 50s Easy For Men Not So Much For Women!

If you put your positive self out there you will attract something good. I don’t think every woman would judge you based on your health and job status. I am not a control freak nor would I want to be controlled. I believe in mutual support of each other.

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When I got married I didn’t feel I wanted or needed someone else. My wife and I were intimate on a frequent basis and it wasn’t just sex it was a closeness and bonding witch I genuinely cared about. I remember while on a business trip I had a encounter with an attractive woman who wanted to be more than friends. She attempted to kiss me and I said I can’t do this I’m married and she said I am too. I said I don’t think you understand you are a beautify women but wouldn’t want my wife to do this and I can’t do it either.

Its important to note my mom was not a “drug user” by nature. This is just happening in her late 50’s. I can relate to all the problems you stated in your article .I’m an only son and child to an extremely controlling mother and a passive father. The main problem right now i am facing after realising is that of financial freedom. I am a student in college pursuing a degree i hate and i am not good at it and i never as a child saw myself doing it.

Remember that it’s about the two of you as individuals, not your age difference.

I had one woman who rescheduled a first date three times. On the last time I told her to forget it and she was stunned. You and the women you’re referring to are either paid to look good, in which case they do, or married. Having built nearly every single thing on earth and being responsible for its stability, safety, security and sustainability, I can assure you that this is not a man’s perspective. In fact, if we started giving less of a f— about what women thought about anything, we would enjoy a tremendous improvement in our collective mental health and maybe stop jumping off brudges .

I wasn’t even good enough for him, and I consider myself to be a quality human being with standards. Being an avid reader myself I think you have a great job, and I have found that men your height can be just as nice, if not more so, than taller men. The criticisms and judgements you’ve received from women are arrogant, superficial, and unfair. I am sorry that you’ve been treated this way. I wasnt a drinker,didnt party,wasnt wealthy always clean and tidy nothing like her new man so why enter into a rs with me ? How can one say after 4 years “your not who i thought you were” surely after year one you know who the person your with is.

I don’t think that makes us too old to find love again, a love that can carry us into old age. These issues, coupled with the anti-male bias in divorce court, make the prospect of a relationship or marriage to the modern western woman an endeavor fraught with peril. I advise all men to carefully consider all they could lose before risking it all.


That makes it more difficult to get to know people. I am praying that developing myself and my other healthy relationships will be attractive enough. I sure hope so, and I love John Gottman adapted for dating and singles, so it will be authentic if/when. I started going out about a year after becoming a widower. My wife had two children from prior marriage who were outraged. Our two sons were ok with me going off.

While not limited to users who’ve attained a specific level of education or professional status, this site caters to those who are “intellectually” inclined and driven. Users can register to complete a personality test and receive a list of potential partners for free. Members can also choose who sees their photos to prevent any unwanted attention. Users can purchase a “ConnectMe” add-on, which enables you to connect with other members and get to know someone before meeting in person. SeniorMatch is a well-known dating site that caters specifically to older adults. Stacker offers its articles as-is and as-available, and makes no representations or warranties of any kind.

And as you navigate through the relationship with your loved one, it should be a promise you make to each other to stay relatively fit and attractive. The way you take care of yourself is an indicative of how you feel about yourself. I am still scared witless sometimes- that I will be alone forever- will be in embarrassing circumstances with men who don’t want me and will cheat with multiple girls younger than my youngest daughter . Most people think I’m early to mid 40s. I’m not attracted physically to women my age. Try to get into the physical part of the relationship with a delightful woman of the same age but very difficult.

Just depends…was worried when I was widowed at 52 that I wouldnt find someone my age or even older to have sex as often as I would like. Found someone younger to have sex with to not lose it, got to use it or lose as a older woman!!! Open to man closer to my age to have a relationship ship but not just as a companion. Because we r sitting here reading posts that say we may as well accept the fact that we are going to be alone the rest of our lives.

Up until I caught her, it was more about how much money they were going to make versus the great money we made each year. He would rent a plane etc…more of a higher status than being loyal to the man that dedicated an important part of his life to her and her career. I am 50, recently single after an empty nest. I’m athletic, tall, have a successful career in medicine, play music publicly, make art, and and am told I’m handsome. I always liked women my own age, but now, the late 30-something and early 40 something women are all over me, no matter how much you tell them they’re too young.