5 Sketchy Reasons Why Your Online Match Wont Meet You In Person And What To Do About It

Good luck on having a life you truly deserve, a life filled with divine love and endless joys. Moments to remember and your breathtaking smiles. Distraction and making yourself busy will give you enough time to heal and will give him enough time to ponder as well.

Sometimes a guy just needs to take a breather and get some space for a day or two. One of the most common reasons why a guy may not text for a few days is because he’s actually genuinely busy with work. He may be up against a tight deadline or dealing with some other kind of professional commitment.

He Allows The Conversation To Die

So I guess it depends on what you were complimenting him on. Did you think you were having a good discussion and he just left the conversation midway? Why do guys leave suddenly, you may wonder. There’s a huge chance you might have offended him. It might not have necessarily been something you said.

This is because you’ve already shown you’re interested and now, he feels he can back down. To put it simply, he’s not interested in a relationship with you, or he’s not ready or capable of one and didn’t know how to tell you, so he just stopped texting you. If you’re looking for some closure, it might be worth sending him another text message — after you’ve waited a couple of days for a reply to your previous one. It’s a strange double-bind that can happen for a number of reasons– which all have nothing to do with you! As an example, he could be shy about making a move.

He’s taking you for granted

There is plenty of other fish out there for him to catch anyways. Instead, show him you are worth his time and be sensible about what to post and what to share on your social media. But having a mutual friend who can assess the situation and is rational towards his advice can be beneficial to both of you. This will make him curious more and more and will make him start texting you again as usual. The only thing that you can do here is to create a delay in your communication with him after he starts texting you again.

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One thing I’ve learned about men is that they will avoid as much as possible being “straight with a woman” they would much rather do anything to avoid anything uncomfortable. Please forget about this guy…if he comes forward later then great but let him come to you. We women let these guys waste our time by keeping us dangling. Never let them be that comfortable with us…make them step up to the plate.

There are a lot of people who are texting people who aren’t really all that interested. Some of them may actually be too polite to ghost you. A lot of women will throw out a suggestive naughty text to a guy to get a response. But sometimes it takes an extraordinary measure profile to get what we want. But very often what I find is that most women don’t want to do this because they were afraid of how they will be perceived by him. There are a billion-and-one different reasons why a guy might not be able to stay in contact and keep texting you.

But that doesn’t mean they should send you texts after texts and not give you enough space to breathe. If someone is into you they will try to text you at random moments and create spontaneous topics, just out of nowhere to have a chance to talk with you. They should talk with you for as long as you need to.

And you should not feel guilty about that. If it’s only been 2 or 3 days since he hasn’t texted you the best thing to do is to “do nothing” and give him some space. Don’t text him, don’t call him, don’t re-read his texts over and over, or stalk him on social media. He might not be texting as much because he’s dealing with a personal issue or private family matter.

You might as well choose an assumption that serves you instead of one that guarantees failure. But I can tell you that people who assume that other people don’t like them usually end up with other people not liking them. I can also tell you that people who assume that other people love them usually end up surrounded by people who love them. The other side of how to handle this in a useful way is to assume that the other person really, really likes you.