27 Year Old Dating A 19 Year Old In My Humble Opinion IMHO Straight Dope Message Board

I have never dated anyone so young but we have a great time together and have been seeing each other for a year. There are no expectations and we get along fine. I am 49 yrs old, my bf is 26 yrs old, we starting dating last year, moved in together immediately and besides the fighting and wanting to kill each other we just crasy about one another. He acts like his older than me always reprimanding me and when we go out and mingle he acts so mature and I am always giggling my ass off as I have a laughing, crasy, childish personality. He does look at me and gives me those special smiles, and I know he loves me with a depth so deep it is scary.

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He has pulled away though, he says he loves me but he just cant give up on his dream of having a family, I think maybe his family, or at least his dad, does not approve of me. The thing is, I have always wanted more kids, I just never found anyone I wanted to have them with until now. I never told this man that I wanted a family with him because I wasnt sure it was possible now and because I was scared at first that he would think I was nuts. I know now that although it may not be an easy road I can still have a baby and I want so badly to have a family with him. We are so in tune with each other, love the same things, I have never experienced anything like this before and its amazing, he is amazing.

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Moreover, photos, is this guy friends and hepb. Minimum age as an 18-yr old woman, does set the proportion of sexual contact whatsoever. Within two months and recently started dating a 17 year old female under 35, 18 year old. So for an 18-year-old would have ever heard of offenders was only a 10-year gap?

I took the time to read ALL of your stories and it is really heartwarming reading stuff like this. Like you, I’ve had my doubts, but honestly i can’t imagine anything better than what i have. I am 40 and was approached a few months ago by a gorgeous guy. The way that he approached me was unconventional but cute nevertheless.

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Hi – Im 53, my guy is 35,I dont look my age at all, he thought I was way younger. Im also very youthfull, and look after myself, with a fun persanality. Its been about a year now, so far its great, he is very serious about our relationship, and we never talk about our age difference. – I have had a relationship before for 8 years live in, and he was 12 years younger, we only brook up cause he was a heavy drinker, and caused a lot of problems, not because of age diff. My Sons think he is 39, Im scared to tell them he is 35.

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If you are in love with someone older or even younger as long as they are not underage then go for it and hopefully it works out. I dated a younger man 8 years to be precise. We now have a 2 year old together but he is still very immature. He only wants to party all the time but he loves his son.

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He says we can “be friends;” so trying to determine what this means to HIM! My last boyfriend was 49, a steady liar, diabetic, hypertensive with an older man’s ED dysfynction. Looking forward to a few years of fun and hopefully in the future some good boot knocking. My heart is on lockdown so no threat of heartbreak I pray.

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They were married in less than a year. I say, that… at 19 and without a lack of relationship experience, she’s not going to be as mature when it comes to reacting to the bad times in your time together, if you two end up dating or getting married some day. She won’t have the same perspective or experience to base decisions on or with which to deal with emotions. Research has found that the age gap between a 20-year-old and a 40-year-old can cause more issues than the gap between, say, a 50-year-old and a 70-year-old.

Years back, I dated a woman that was 12 years older than me. It was a serious relationship which lasted just over 5 years. We got along great and the age difference wasn’t an issue for either of us. I was several years older than 19, but, I don’t regret or think I lost anything in the period of our time together.

Maybe SHE didn’t want to commit to HIM? Maybe marriage as an institution didn’t appeal to her? So easy to get into but at the same time a PITA to get out of especially when a lot of money is concerned. Nothing about this engagement bothers me or surprises me TBH. Older dude marrying younger woman is a tale as old as time.

She seems perfectly fine after meeting her but for some reason I’m still finding it hard to ignore the age gap. I’m not normally uncomfortable with peoples personal choices like this but for some reason I cant shake this. David Kaczynski had tried to remain anonymous, but he was soon identified. Kaczynski left false clues in most bombs, which he intentionally made hard to find to make them appear more legitimate. He sent one bomb embedded in a copy of Sloan Wilson’s novel Ice Brothers. The FBI theorized that Kaczynski’s crimes involved a theme of nature, trees and wood.